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Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, it’s about learning how to dance in the rain!!

In the process of letting go, you will lose many things from the past, but you will find yourself. No matter why things are changing, we need to be able to let go and move on. Whether it’s the death of a loved one, a painful breakup, a business failure, or a treacherous betrayal, holding onto past pain and resentment will only hold you back. The truth is unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward. We all should remember one thing, i.e., yesterday is not ours to recover, but tomorrow is definitely ours to win or lose. People can be more forgiving than you can imagine. But you have to forgive yourself. Let go of what’s bitter and move on.

The only thing a person can ever really do is keep moving forward. Take that big leap forward without hesitation, without once looking back. Simply forget the past and forge toward the future. We must be willing to let go of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.

You just never know what’s around the corner, and you can’t hold the hand of who you’re supposed to be with until you let go of the hand you’re currently holding. There’s good in every situation, and in order to get through to the next chapter in your life, you have to appreciate that what you had may have been good, but something better is on its way, and you’re a stronger person now because of what you’ve been through.

There is this beautiful line I read somewhere – “If you want to fly in the sky, you need to leave the earth. If you want to move forward, you need to let go the past that drags you down.”

Let yourself move to the next chapter in life when the time comes, Don’t remain stuck on the same page. The point is, if you keep carrying the same bricks from your past into the future, you will end up building the same house which won’t last.

The fact is, we’re not going to always understand why everything happens in our lives. There are things that break us, challenge us, and test our limits. There are things that are not removed and situations that take a long time to change. You have to trust that it is what’s best for you. Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be. As Steve Jobs so famously said, “You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backward. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.” So just trust that your dots will connect. Have faith in yourself and in the future.

The best thing you can do is choose to be positive and keep going. You can’t control everything that happens to you; you can only control the way you respond to what happens. Your response is your power over whatever challenge you may face. So “Keep Calm and Carry On”. Smiling doesn’t always mean you’re happy with everything. Sometimes it just means you’re strong and smart enough to accept it and make the best of it.

If you can breathe, you can make it through anything. When fear, anxiety, worry, or stress sets in, stop yourself and take a minute. Don’t get too far ahead of yourself worrying about what might happen next. You don’t have any control over that. But you DO have the present moment. Take a DEEP breath and stay committed to being right here, right now. Just take it one day at a time and keep breathing. You’ll make it. All you have to is Never Give Up. Don’t back out from all the problems you are going through. stand Still and keep on fighting. Challenges are there to make you stay strong and learn the difficulties of life. So rather than being afraid of it, Face all of them with a smile and get through it.

At the end of the day, I hope that whatever you might be going through you know that:

1. You will get through it

2. You will be stronger for it

3. You will find more greatness out of life because of it.

-Kashish